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Only Trying to Help, Episode 136 Helping Feels Like an Emergency
Episode 136
Wednesday, 25 March, 2026
In helping professions—and in everyday life—it’s easy to start seeing every problem as an emergency. When someone is struggling, our instinct is to jump in immediately, fix the situation, and relieve their pain as quickly as possible. After all, we’re only trying to help. But what happens when that sense of urgency actually gets in the way? In Episode 136 of the Only Trying to Help podcast, Hilary Logan joins the conversation to explore why helpers so often assume that every problem requires immediate action. Together, we discuss how this “emergency mindset” can change the way we think, speak, and respond to others. When we feel pressure to solve things right away, we may become more reactive, less curious, and more likely to say things we later regret. This episode looks at the subtle ways urgency can interfere with effective helping—and how learning to slow down can create more thoughtful, supportive conversations.








