The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe speaks to ppl in the sex community about things men like and dont like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants and needs.

Author: The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe and Loon speaks to people in the sex community about things men like and don't like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants, and needs.
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How To Ride, Survive a Bad Sex Life And Keep The Spark Alive Feat @FantasyFitnessMD
Wednesday, 23 September, 2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂 We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you have for your partner? And what happens when you’re with somebody whose sex drive is MUCH higher than yours? Then Toni tells us the unbelievable story of why TWO of her boyfriends decided to break up with her after they went to jail. Apparently incarceration had them doing some serious relationship reflection. 😂 From there, Toni explains how casually teaching friends bedroom techniques eventually turned into an actual Fantasy Fitness class, why people sign up, and what they’re hoping to learn. We also talk about building anticipation with your partner throughout the day, mismatched sexual desire, how much recovery time people really need between rounds, and whether bad sex is enough reason to GHOST somebody afterward. The crew also imagines what would happen if we all became OnlyFans creators and had to choose our own niche. Plus, there’s a new use for Meta glasses that nobody at Meta had in mind, Yesssterday introduces us to another one of his…creative techniques, and Tahoe has to answer for possibly ruining his friend’s experience by deciding to join the festivities. Toni also talks about the confidence and motivations that shaped her approach to intimacy, while the crew gets into communication, boundaries and what partners actually enjoy in the bedroom. A listener writes in to tell us about a “little” obsession of his.. And of course, Courtney is back with Kink of the Week. Relationship problems, sexual confidence, Fantasy Fitness, questionable decisions and entirely too much information. Welcome back to Hard or Soft.Socials:Toni@FantasyFitnessMD on InstagramHead to www.RidingForRookies.com to book a slot at one of Toni's Riding classesCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostGo to VB.Health and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% offGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow