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Sh!t That Goes On In Our HeadsAuthor: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, Bleav
Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a podcast that emerged from G-Rexs personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles lifes challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that its okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity. Language: en Genres: Alternative Health, Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Kate King on Toxic Relationships, Healing, and How to Mend or Move On
Episode 1
Tuesday, 24 March, 2026
What if the hardest relationship you have to walk away from is the one you thought would heal you? In this powerful Season 17 opener, G-Rex and Dirty Skittles sit down with returning guest Kate King to unpack toxic relationship patterns, emotional healing, and how to finally choose yourself. Awards & Downloads Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads has over 4.5 million downloads and counting, we are listened to all over the world, and we are an award-winning podcast. 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner (Best Health) 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast), 2026 Podcast Tonight Award Winner (Best Mental Health Podcast) 2026 NYC Podcast Award Winner (Best Hosts) Feedback Link We’d love to hear your thoughts! Leave us written or voice feedback here:https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote “You don’t have to keep abandoning yourself just to keep a relationship alive.” — Kate King Episode Description Relationships can shape us—but they can also slowly break us if we’re not paying attention. In this deeply honest and eye-opening conversation, Kate King returns to the mic to talk about the patterns, blind spots, and emotional traps that keep people stuck in relationships that hurt more than they heal. Drawing on over 17 years of experience in mental health, art therapy, and coaching, Kate shares the inspiration behind her book, Mend or Move On, and walks us through the subtle ways we normalize dysfunction. From ignoring red flags to confusing chemistry with compatibility, this episode pulls back the curtain on why leaving isn’t always as simple as it sounds. G-Rex and Dirty Skittles keep it real as they explore the emotional tug-of-war between staying and going, how trauma and nervous system responses play into our relationship choices, and what it actually looks like to rebuild self-trust. Kate brings a grounded, compassionate approach—blending neuroscience, creativity, and practical tools—to help listeners reconnect with themselves and start making empowered decisions. If you’ve ever questioned your worth in a relationship, felt stuck in cycles you can’t explain, or wondered if it’s time to walk away, this episode will hit home—and help you find your next step forward. Keywords: toxic relationships, emotional healing, mental health podcast, relationship trauma, self-worth, boundaries, nervous system healing, leaving toxic relationships, codependency, relationship red flags, healing journey, self-awareness, personal growth, trauma recovery Meet Our Guest — Kate King Kate King is the founder of The Radiant Life Project, a Radiant Life Coach, Board-Certified Art Therapist, award-winning author, and former Licensed Professional Counselor with over 17 years of experience. Her work blends neuroscience, psychology, spirituality, and creativity to help people heal, reconnect, and live more authentic lives. Kate is the author of Mend or Move On, a therapeutic guide to recognizing and recovering from harmful relationships, and the creator of tools like The Radiant Life Project, The Authentic Mother, and the Ink & Wings Oracle Deck. Website: https://TheRadiantLifeProject.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theradiantlifeproject/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRadiantLifeProject/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChxGCo2H8iWIReg8X6ADubgLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/theradiantlifeproject/ Key Takeaways Not all relationships are meant to be saved—and recognizing that is part of healing Toxic patterns often feel familiar because they’re rooted in past experiences Self-abandonment is one of the highest costs of staying in unhealthy relationships Awareness is the first step, but action is what creates real change Healing isn’t about perfection—it’s about reconnecting to your truth Actionable Items Write down the patterns you keep repeating in relationships and identify what they’re trying to teach you Practice setting one small boundary this week—even if it feels uncomfortable Create a daily check-in with yourself: “Am I honoring my needs right now?” Important Chapters 00:00 – Welcome back Kate King & why this conversation matters now 08:15 – How to recognize toxic relationship patterns early 18:40 – The emotional traps that keep people stuck 29:10 – Trauma, nervous system responses, and attachment 41:25 – When to mend vs. when to move on 52:00 – Rebuilding self-trust and choosing yourself again Closing CTA Subscribe, Rate, and Review!Remember to subscribe for more inspiring stories. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our Website:https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipTrauma #SelfWorth #Boundaries #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #TraumaRecovery #Codependency #MentalHealthSupport ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: (https://grexanddirtyskittles.substack.com/)Merch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
