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The Coach Daniel Ratner PodcastAuthor: By Coach Daniel Ratner
Coach Ratner is not a matchmaker, but a MateMaker. With 7 books under his belt, Coach Ratner is an accomplished author and sought-after speaker on topics such as relationships, self-esteem and spirituality. His unique insights and captivating speaking style have helped countless individuals achieve their goals and transform their lives. Language: en-us Genres: Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Five Dates To Meet Your Mate (Go thorugh 5 dates, what to talk about, what NOT to talk about, defining red flags, green flags, chemistry, and what a successful date looks like)
Monday, 16 March, 2026
Let me know your thoughts about the podcast. Thank you for listening!First dates can feel like a pop quiz you never studied for, so we built a simple roadmap that replaces nerves with clarity: five dates that gradually move from light connection to real commitment. We start with a mindset shift that changes everything. A first date is not an interview, it is an energy check. We share first date questions that spark easy conversation while quietly revealing priorities, values, and character, including prompts about Shabbos, life choices, and the “lottery test” that exposes how someone thinks about time, money, and purpose. From there, we get honest about what to avoid early: ex talk, family dysfunction dumps, money flexing, and future planning that is too intense too soon. We also talk about the power of being a little mysterious, not as a game, but as a healthy pace that protects attraction and keeps a relationship from turning into a therapy session. On the second and third dates, we raise the depth with questions about role models, personal growth, and value alignment, especially around spending habits and lifestyle expectations, because financial values and direction in life can make or break a marriage. We also define chemistry in plain language you can actually use: conversation that flows, time that speeds up, playful tension, calm plus energy, and silence that does not feel awkward. You will hear clear red flags and green flags, plus why leaving a date feeling anxious, confused, or drained matters. Finally, we push for intention with dating timelines, and we share our “four S’s” framework for knowing whether a connection is real: seen, safe, sexy, and salsa. If this helps, subscribe, share with a friend who is dating for marriage, and leave a review. What is the best question you have ever asked on a first date?
