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老外你好＃005: 澳大利亚沙发客激励上海
Episode 1
Thursday, 3 July, 2014
今天的老外你好访问来自澳大利亚的Adi，本身是著名沙发客和生活教练，目前住在上海！ 1. We’re not born with developed skills. 小编手记：没有任何一种技能是与生俱来的，所以当我们失败的时候不要沮丧，不要焦虑，停止严厉的批判自己，而是将注意力放在如何精进自我的技能上。——停止焦虑的方法就是立刻去做！ 2. think outside of box. 小编手记：突破思维的局限性。 3. 3 Tips for making foreign friends: 1. Practice to speak 2. Find the opportunities to meet the foreign people. 3. In order to be a friend (you don’t need to really speak their language), you offer some help for them. You have to satisfy people’s needs for these 6 aspects. So here we have 6 cores human needs. 1. certainty/ security 2. variety 3. connection/ love 4. significance 5. growth 6. contribution. 小编手记：与人的交往前提是要了解六大需求理论并能够满足对方这些需求：1.确定性2.多变性3.爱与联系4.重要性5.成长6.贡献。与说不同语言的人交往你甚至不必一定要说对方的语言，只要你真诚的帮人所急，人们自然愿意与你做朋友 4.female energy 小编手记：女性在处理两性关系时要注重展现自己的“女性力量”。注重仪表仪态非常重要，更重要的是展现女人做为女性的魅力。 5.Chinese people put Australian, American, European people in the same boat. 小编手记：对于一般的中国人来说“老外”是个非常模糊的概念，只要是外国人就都是“老外”。其实外国人也是独立的个体，更不要说他们的国籍。总体来说，即便是美国人和澳洲人差异也非常之大，所以在对外交流的过程中不要“一视同仁”，而是尊重个体差异，关注对方，了解对方。 6. To western guys, you’d have been missing out if you hadn’t worn cologne. 小编手记：如果你想与西方男生交往，那么最好选择一款适合你的古龙水。中国女孩子一般没有涂香氛的习惯，那么在与西方男生交往的过程中这意味着你已失去了先机。不要忘记人的动物性，语言之外的信息甚至比语言本身更重要。 Adi's 公共账号：Motivate Shanghai
