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Lean into LoveAuthor: Gina Velez
Welcome to the "Lean into Love" podcast where we delve deep into the heart, exploring the dynamic interplay between love and fear and the transformative journey of self-compassion. Join me, your devoted host Gina Velez, as we embark on a quest to understand how choosing love over fear and practicing self-compassion can lead to profound personal and collective change. Language: en Genres: Education, Religion & Spirituality, Self-Improvement, Spirituality Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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LiL: 26 | Embracing the Gray w/ Francisco Ortega
Episode 6
Sunday, 28 June, 2026
Today’s guest is Francisco Ortega, who reflects on migration, identity, vulnerability, and the lost art of deep conversation. He shares how self-doubt and imposter syndrome can fuel humility and growth, and opens up about the shame that once led him to fabricate parts of his story in order to belong.Francisco recounts immigrating from Jalisco, Mexico, living in Tijuana apart from his parents, and arriving in the U.S. in 1978 — experiences that shaped his sense of dual identity. He also discusses his men’s group, his work around dialogue, and how writing an autobiographical-fictional book led to deeper conversations with his family and daughters.Together, we explore performativity, certainty, yoga, religion, impermanence, and what it truly means to “lean into love” through vulnerability, curiosity, and connection.00:00 Why Conversation Matters01:23 Imposter Syndrome Talk02:42 Doubt as Fuel04:04 Men’s Group and Honest Mirrors06:20 Immigrant Roots and Identity10:41 Shame and Reinventing Yourself14:36 Authenticity and the Self16:16 Happiness Culture and Isolation19:28 Seeing Family with New Questions23:59 Parenting Power and Indoctrination27:58 Seminary Years and Service33:41 Religion, Control, and Kindness39:57 Living Beyond Binary Labels41:58 Beyond Gender Binaries45:43 Certainty as Violence47:45 Living in the Gray50:11 Rage and Hard Questions52:20 Yoga Leadership Impermanence54:43 Performative Culture Anger Economy01:03:25 Eternal Return Gender Roles01:08:52 Leaning Into LoveIf this conversation resonated with you:💛 Share this episode with someone who needs a reminder that their pain—physical or emotional—is interconnected and worthy of care.💛 Leave a review to help more listeners find conversations like this.💛 Visit www.ginavelezwellness.com to begin working together! Therapy in CA, Coaching everywhere.
