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Awake at the WheelAuthor: Dr Oren Amitay and Malini Ondrovcik
Join Clinical Psychologist Dr. Oren Amitay and Registered Psychotherapist Malini Ondrovcik each week as they tackle hot-button issues from every angle. With sharp clinical insights, lived experience, and a bit of out-of-the-box thinking, Malini and Oren dive deep into todays social and psychological trends, leaving you ready to form your own take.Malini runs a multidisciplinary clinic and specializes in trauma, ADHD, anxiety, chronic pain, and more, with a strong focus on culturally competent care. Shes worked extensively with first responders and even serves as an expert witness in trauma cases.Dr. Amitay brings nearly 30 years of expertise in therapy, assessment, and university lecturing, focusing on mood, personality, and relationship issues. Hes a frequent expert witness, well-versed in psychological evaluations, and has a few academic publications under his belt.Get ready for lively discussions, and insightful perspectives. Language: en-us Genres: Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Is Healthy Masculinity Even Possible Anymore?
Episode 103
Wednesday, 25 March, 2026
Awake at the Wheel | Ep 103In this episode, Malini Ondrovcik and Dr. Oren Amitay unpack the confusing and often damaging messages men receive about masculinity, sexuality, hygiene, and emotional expression. From online shame and cultural stereotypes to bias in therapy and mental health training, this conversation explores how young men are being shaped by fear-based narratives rather than nuance, confidence, and self-awareness.The discussion examines how social stigma around men’s bodies, sexuality, and even basic hygiene reflects a deeper crisis in how masculinity is understood. Malini and Oren challenge simplistic labels, question the influence of toxic messaging, and make the case for more emotionally intelligent, gender-sensitive approaches in both therapy and public discourse.This episode is a candid look at the pressures men face, the myths that distort male identity, and the importance of creating spaces where men can explore who they are without shame.In this episode:-The stigma around men’s hygiene, body awareness, and sexuality-How masculinity myths affect self-esteem and help-seeking-The role of shame, stereotypes, and online narratives in shaping male identity-Why bias against men in mental health spaces creates real clinical harm-The limits of rigid, manualized therapy when deeper emotional work is needed-Why therapists need self-awareness, nuance, and emotional regulation-How to support men in exploring identity, emotion, and masculinity without judgment-The importance of authentic therapeutic relationships in helping men healTimestamps:00:00 - Are men okay? Confusing messages about masculinity and hygiene01:20 - The online debate around touching your body and being perceived as gay02:19 - How toxic masculinity myths shape young men’s behavior03:10 - The history of terms like cuckold and pegging and their psychological impact04:09 - How stereotypes undermine male self-esteem and hygiene05:08 - Shame, stigma, and why men avoid asking for help06:48 - Bidets, masculinity, and cultural discomfort08:05 - Anal health, shame, and gender norms09:35 - Propaganda, simplistic narratives, and mental health discourse10:21 - The decline of nuance in guidance for men11:42 - “Not washing the booty” as a distorted symbol of masculinity12:22 - Social media narratives and male identity formation13:19 - Why therapists need stronger critical thinking14:04 - Systemic problems in mental health training and practice15:28 - How anti-male bias affects therapy16:50 - The impact of cultural messaging on treatment outcomes for men17:28 - Confidence, authenticity, and sexual identity18:28 - Emotional regulation and therapist self-awareness19:11 - Online groupthink and professional echo chambers20:36 - The need for trauma-informed, gender-sensitive therapy22:10 - Why men hide their struggles and emotions23:41 - Building strong therapeutic alliances through empathy24:38 - How to spot propaganda in gender and mental health research26:02 - Fostering resilience and nuance in therapy training27:50 - Helping men challenge harmful norms29:20 - Creating safe spaces for men to explore masculinity31:13 - PWe want your questions! Future episodes will feature a new segment, Rounds Table, where Malini and Dr Amitay will answer your questions, discuss your comments, and explore your ideas. Send your questions to rounds@aatwpodcast.com, tweet us @awakepod, send us a message at facebook.com/awakepod, or leave a comment on this video!EmailInstaYoutube Facebook Twitter
