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DTD PODCASTAuthor: DJ KELLY
My name is Dustin Kelly, but everybody calls me DJ. I am former Army, serving as both a Forward Observer and a Military Police Officer. I have spent the last 16.5 years as a Police Officer and Detective in a large metropolitan Police Department. Throughout my career I have learned two things. 1. Everybody has a story to tell, and 2. The Best Stories Are True. This is the DTD Podcast. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Episode 184: Tristan Wimmer "USMC Scout/Sniper"
Episode 184
Tuesday, 7 January, 2025
-CHAPTERS- 00:00 Introduction to the Journey 03:50 Family Legacy and Military Background 06:00 The Impact of Traumatic Brain Injury 10:31 Brotherly Competition and Changes 14:26 The Effects of Military Training 17:43 Experiencing Combat and Its Aftermath 23:10 Guilt and Responsibility 28:48 Altruism and Personal Growth 32:27 Reflections on Military Service 39:50 Decisions and Consequences in the Marine Corps 46:14 The Aftermath of Injury: Accountability and Guilt 55:57 Navigating Mental Health: A Brother's Decline 01:07:00 The Impact of Relationships on Personal Struggles 01:13:01 Confronting the Reality of Suicide 01:21:16 The Breaking Point: A Brother's Struggle 01:24:42 Guilt and Regret: The Weight of Decisions 01:28:39 The Final Straw: Understanding the Tragedy 01:33:06 The Aftermath: Coping with Loss and Anger 01:39:00 Forgiveness and Healing: A Journey Forward 01:42:10 22 Jumps: A Mission to Honor and Heal -SUMMARY- In this conversation, DJ and Tristan explore the profound impact of military service on mental health, particularly focusing on the experiences of veterans dealing with traumatic brain injuries and the consequences of military culture. The discussion delves into the familial legacy of military service, the evolution of brotherly relationships, and the struggles of transitioning to civilian life. The guest shares personal anecdotes about his brother's journey, the challenges faced after injury, and the importance of accountability within the military. Ultimately, the conversation highlights the need for support systems and the role of altruism in healing and finding purpose after loss. This conversation delves into the complexities of transitioning from military service to contracting, the impact of personal relationships on decision-making, and the challenges of dealing with family mental health issues. Tristan shares his journey of navigating the loss of a loved one, the guilt associated with their decisions, and the importance of advocating for traumatic brain injury research. The discussion culminates in the establishment of '22 Jumps', an organization aimed at honoring veterans and supporting mental health initiatives. -TAKEAWAYS- Military service is often a family tradition. Traumatic brain injuries can have lasting effects. Brotherly competition can evolve into something darker. The military culture can amplify aggressive behaviors. Transitioning to civilian life is a significant challenge. Accountability in the military is crucial for healing. Adventure sports can provide a sense of purpose. Guilt can linger after a loved one's injury. Support systems are essential for veterans. Finding purpose after loss is a vital part of recovery. The transition from military to contracting can be purely transactional. Financial incentives often outweigh patriotic motivations in contracting. Relationships can significantly influence personal and professional decisions. Mental health struggles in families can create complex dynamics. It's challenging to help someone who refuses assistance. Guilt and regret are common feelings after losing a loved one. Public embarrassment can be a significant trigger for mental health crises. Forgiveness is a process that can lead to personal growth. Advocacy for traumatic brain injury research is crucial for veterans. Grassroots efforts can lead to substantial fundraising success.
