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Roses Are DeadAuthor: Terry Roseland & Jones
Roses Are Dead is where hand-me-down myths die. We challenge the entry-level performance of manhoodholding doors, flashing wallets, staring at exitsand demand more: vision, discipline, emotional strength, and purpose. In this space men confront the myths they inherited, hold one another accountable, and rise as whole leaders. Masculinity isnt a role to play; its a standard to live. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Lazy Love
Saturday, 4 October, 2025
Ever felt like you’re sharing a home but not a life? We unpack how a vibrant love can quietly slide into “roommates with kisses,” from the moment attention slips to the day intimacy feels like a chore. The turning point wasn’t a single blowup—it was comfort turning into entitlement, a phone turning into a third person, and habits that once made love easy slowly fading into autopilot.We begin with the early romance—flowers, affirmations, planned dates—and follow the slow drift: Twitter tunnel vision, missed eye contact, and the quiet resentment that grows when one person feels unseen. We get honest about sex too. Desire didn’t die; the daily signals did. For many women, foreplay starts long before the bedroom—in tone, respect, compliments, and the way conflict is handled. For men, visual cues matter. So we talk attraction maintenance without vanity: grooming, simple fits, feeling good in your body, and why looking like you want to be chosen today actually changes the energy between you.From there, we offer the rebuild. No grand gestures without follow-through. No “scorekeeping.” Instead, a reset: consistent, small, repeatable practices—one phone-free hour, a weekly intimacy check-in, a planned date start-to-finish, and compliments that honor who your partner is, not just what they do for you. We challenge the usual alibis—kids and work never stop, so they can’t be the reason your effort does—and share scripts for emotional steadiness, not shutdown, during tough talks. There’s real-world texture here too: a raw faith wobble and reset, the weight of middle management, and a frank look at power, safety, and policy in our city.This one is part mirror, part manual. If you’ve been “quiet quitting” your relationship, here’s your playbook to turn presence back on and let desire follow. If it hits home, share it with your person, subscribe for more real talk on love and growth, and leave a review with the one habit you’re recommitting to this week.Join our Patreon Community Buy some merch and ebooks IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_
