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The Openlove101 ShowAuthor: John & Jackie Melfi
This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, were here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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The Truth About Cheating in Open Relationships
Tuesday, 16 September, 2025
In this eye-opening discussion, hosts John and Jackie Melfi tackle the intriguing question: "Do lifestyle couples cheat less than monogamous couples?" Drawing from their extensive experience in open relationships and as owners of Colette Swingers Clubs, they explore the nuances of infidelity, trust, and boundaries within consensual non-monogamy. Join the conversation as they dive into what really constitutes cheating across different relationship models, why trust matters regardless of relationship style, and how open communication can potentially reduce infidelity. Whether you're curious about the lifestyle or simply interested in relationship dynamics, this episode offers valuable insights for all couples. Topics Discussed: The definition of cheating in different relationship contexts Emotional vs. physical infidelity Why consensual non-monogamy might reduce certain forms of cheating The importance of trust in any relationship model Why people sometimes feel threatened by different relationship styles Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Open Love 101 podcast 00:42 - Main topic: Do lifestyle couples cheat less? 01:46 - Defining cheating in open relationships 03:31 - The role of honesty and transparency 04:24 - Addressing jealousy across relationship models 06:05 - Emotional vs. physical cheating discussion 09:23 - Why opening a relationship won't fix infidelity 11:35 - Trust and dishonesty in relationships 13:24 - Why people invalidate different relationship models 15:28 - The "defensive reaction" to alternative lifestyles
