The Openlove101 Show

Author: John & Jackie Melfi

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we're here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.
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Our Rules vs. Your Rules: Why Every Open Relationship Is Unique
Tuesday, 3 February, 2026

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the fascinating world of consensual non-monogamy and explore why there's no standard set of rules in the lifestyle. In this eye-opening discussion, they break down how boundaries differ from couple to couple and why respecting those differences is crucial to positive experiences in the swinger community. 🔑 Key Topics Covered: 00:00 - Introduction to Open Love 101 podcast 00:40 - Welcome from John and Jackie Melfi 00:58 - Main topic: Rules vs. boundaries in open relationships 03:02 - Club rules vs. personal boundaries 05:00 - Communication about boundaries with partners 07:35 - Handling conflicting boundaries between couples 09:31 - The importance of respecting others' boundaries 10:51 - Why judgment has no place in consensual relationships 12:01 - Building relationships despite different comfort levels John and Jackie share their 20+ years of combined experience running the industry-famous Colette Swingers Clubs while offering practical advice on establishing healthy boundaries in non-monogamous relationships. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or experienced, this conversation highlights the beautiful diversity of open relationships and how respecting boundaries creates better experiences for everyone. 🔔 Subscribe to our channel and hit the notification bell to be alerted when we upload new content about open relationships, swinging, and consensual non-monogamy! 📝 Learn more about establishing boundaries in your relationship by joining Open Love 101 Plus at openlove101.com. 👇 Have you encountered couples with different boundaries? Share your experience in the comments below!