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#315 Can’t Get Your Kids to Stop Fighting? Try These 10 Scripts to Create Peace
Episode 315
Wednesday, 4 June, 2025

Are you struggling with how to handle conflicts and tough behavior with your kids?Do consequences often feel harsh or ineffective, leaving your family stressed instead of connected?In this episode, we dive deep into using natural consequences as a powerful tool for conflict resolution in your family. Instead of punishments or power struggles, discover how fun yet impactful consequences can teach kids respect, empathy, and responsibility — all while strengthening your family bonds.Raising seven kids ourselves, we know how challenging sibling rivalry and hurtful words can be. We share real-life strategies that help kids own their mistakes, learn from them, and choose kindness next time — without resentment or fear.If you want to create a peaceful home where your children develop emotional intelligence and self-control, this episode is packed with practical, easy-to-implement ideas that truly work.Whether your kids are toddlers or teens, these natural consequence techniques will empower you to turn conflict into growth opportunities — with love, humor, and respect.Key Takeaways:✅ Natural consequences teach responsibility without harsh punishment✅ Opt-in consequences build cooperation and buy-in from kids✅ Fun, intense consequences leave lasting lessons without damage✅ Encouraging honesty and ownership defuses sibling conflict✅ Small intentional strategies transform family culture✅ Raising emotionally intelligent kids strengthens relationshipsChapters:00:00 Creating an Extraordinary Family Life02:19 Addressing Sibling Rivalry05:43 Healing Underlying Issues11:17 The Importance of Self-Reflection19:09 Tools for Emotional Mastery27:04 Noticing and Addressing Small Issues32:06 Practical Strategies for Conflict Resolution40:27 Navigating Sibling Conflicts45:27 Teaching Emotional Intelligence50:40 Calming Techniques for Heated Moments56:02 Addressing Annoying Behaviors01:01:08 Promoting Personal Responsibility01:06:08 Building Perspective on Family Dynamics01:11:31 Handling Name-Calling and Insults01:21:12 Building Resilience in Children01:22:59 Parental Responsibility and Empowerment01:25:19 Emotional Bank Accounts in Sibling Relationships01:26:14 Understanding Fairness in Family Dynamics01:28:59 Teaching Fairness and Sharing01:32:32 Addressing Physical Aggression in Children01:39:49 The Importance of Accountability and Consequences01:49:35 Fostering Ownership and Responsibility01:51:30 Eliminating Jealousy and Competition01:53:46 Standing Up Against Bullying01:59:24 Creating an Extraordinary Family LifeMemorable Quotes:🗣 "Consequences don’t have to be harsh to be effective."🗣 "When kids choose their consequence, they’re more likely to learn."🗣 "The goal is connection and growth — not fear or shame."🗣 "Sibling conflict is a classroom for empathy and emotional intelligence."🗣 "Small, intentional changes in parenting make big family transformations."RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Join the Do More With Less Stress Workshop Series for busy momsBecome a Founding Member of our Extraordinary Parent Mentoring MethodJoin Greg’s 7-Day Challenge JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in PortugalRead our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/