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The Challenger PodcastAuthor: Dave Glaser
The Challenger Podcast helps you show up authentically and navigate modern dating where texting, social media and dating apps have become the way people connect and communicate. Each week, I interview dating experts and real life daters is to share what authentic dating can look like for you in these modern times. New episodes and live recordings every other week to find your ideal relationship through the Enneagram, attachment theory and core energy dynamics. Subscribe and leave a rating and review today so that you never miss an episode and connect with me on Tiktok @dave.glaser for a candid look at modern dating. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Relationships, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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The Good, The Bad & The Ugly of a Type 9 in Relationship
Monday, 18 August, 2025
The Enneagram 9, often called The Peacemaker, is known for their calm, grounded, and accepting nature. But what does this really look like in a relationship — when it’s healthy, when it’s struggling, and when it turns downright messy? In this episode, we dive deep into the good, the bad, and the ugly sides of the Enneagram 9 in relationships. You’ll discover: The gifts a 9 brings into love — peace, empathy, and loyalty The struggles they face — indecision, conflict avoidance, and complacency The ugly shadow — passive-aggression, emotional withdrawal, and explosive anger when pushed too far If you or your partner identify as an Enneagram 9, this episode will help you understand how to nurture connection, navigate challenges, and avoid the traps that lead to disconnection. Whether you’re an Enneagram enthusiast, in a relationship with a 9, or exploring your own patterns, this conversation will give you practical insight into building healthier, more intentional love. Why Enneagram 9s bring calm and harmony into relationships The hidden dangers of conflict avoidance and self-erasure How numbing and passive-aggression can damage intimacy Practical growth paths for Peacemakers in love Subscribe to The Challenger Podcast for more Enneagram and relationship insights Share this episode with someone who loves the Enneagram as much as you do Follow along on social media for daily reflections and updates
