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Swinger University - A Sexy and Educational Swinging Lifestyle PodcastAuthor: Ed and Phoebe Swinger
Explore the exciting world of the Swinger Lifestyle with Swinger University, your essential swinger show for couples exploring ethical non-monogamy! Hosted by Ed and Phoebe, with over a decade of experience in the swinging lifestyle, we bring you honest and insightful conversations about open relationships, consensual non-monogamy, and intimate connections.If you're searching for a swinger podcast that cuts through the noise and provides real, practical advice, you've found it. We delve into everything from newbie tips and first-time experiences to advanced communication strategies, sexual health, relationship dynamics, and navigating the lifestyle safely. Whether you're curious about swinging, polyamory, or alternative relationships, our information-rich episodes help you build stronger bonds, explore your desires safely, and confidently navigate the world of ethical non-monogamy.Subscribe to Swinger University and join our community of open-minded couples and individuals exploring consensual adult lifestyles!Why Listen?- Get real, unfiltered insights into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy- Learn from experienced swingers about communication, consent, and boundaries- Discover practical advice for navigating swinger parties, clubs, and dating- Hear inspiring stories and experiences from within the lifestyle community- Strengthen your relationship with expert advice on intimacy and sexual exploration- Find answers to your questions about open relationships and alternative lifestylesConnect with Us:Spicy Extras & Behind the Scenes Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversityVacations-Newsletter-Send Us A Message: https://SwingerUniversity.comAll our links: https://SwingerLinks.comFollow Us:TikTok: https://TikTok.com/@SwingerUniversityBlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/swingeruniversity.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/swingeruniversityFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/SwingerUniversityReddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/SwingerUniversity#s Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it |
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Why speaking up changes everything!
Episode 168
Wednesday, 19 November, 2025
Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.comWhen you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for what you actually want. If you've ever said yes when you really meant no, or felt like you were in the backseat of your own experience, this conversation is for you.Watch this episode on YouTube! What You'll Learn- Why the "caretaker mentality" leads to burnout and resentment in the lifestyle- The hidden costs of performing enjoyment instead of experiencing authentic pleasure- How setting boundaries actually makes you more attractive to potential play partners- A simple three-step framework for shifting from people-pleaser to confident communicator- Real-world scenarios and compassionate scripts for saying no without guilt- Why speaking up transforms not just your lifestyle experience, but your relationship dynamic Key Moments[00:00:17] - When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes[00:02:47] - The Caretaker Trap: Why "I don't want to ruin the vibe" is destroying your confidence[00:07:57] - The Backseat Experience: What it costs when you're not driving[00:12:33] - The Confidence Shift: One listener's transformation story[00:16:09] - The Gender Dynamic: Women's opportunity to drive in the lifestyle[00:23:30] - The Power Framework: Three steps to finding your voice[00:32:03] - Permission-Giving Moment: You're not responsible for other people's disappointment[00:33:02] - Real-World Scenarios: How to handle common boundary-pushing situations[00:36:46] - The Transformation: From performing for others to prioritizing yourself[00:40:21] - Why the lifestyle loves boundaries (and how speaking up gives others permission)[00:43:30] - Final Thoughts: Is it about power or permission? Support the showWant More? 👀 Watch on YouTube: YouTube ShowFull video versions and interactive live episodes!Search "Swinger University" on YouTube or click the link above.Check SwingerLinks.com for the live schedule! 🌶️Extra episodes and exclusive content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity 🛳️Book your vacation with us: http://SwingerVacation.net PhoebeSwinger.com - All Phoebe's Spicy 🌶️Links EdSwinger.com - All Ed's Spicy 🌶️Links Our Website - Leave us a message, articles, and sexy products * We get a commission if you decide to make a purchase through our links, at no cost to you. 3 Ways to get your question on our show: RECORD it on our website at: https://swingeruniversity.com/contact/ EMAIL a recorded voice note to: swingeruniversity@gmail.com CALL: (916) 538-0482 and leave a voicemail.
