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Can't Host: Gay, Bisexual, and Queer Mens Sex and RelationshipsSex and relationships guidance for gay, bi, and queer men. Author: George Lizos
Can't Host is a gay and queer mens sex and relationships podcast aiming to challenge toxic gay stereotypes, and explore the complex dynamics of gay relationships, with the aim of creating opportunities for healing and growth. We'll discuss whether size matters, question the top/bottom binary, talk about healing sexual trauma, how to overcome dick- and body-shame, falling out of love with someone, homonormativity, and more. If you're a gay guy who's frustrated with the rigid rules of the gay community, seeking more joy and authenticity in your sex life and relationships, you're in the right place! www.georgelizos.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Language: en Genres: Health & Fitness, Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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Ep.79: Mostly Straight Men, Masculinity, and the Future of Sexual Fluidity with Dr. Ritch Savin-Williams
Episode 9
Friday, 6 February, 2026
Join the Telegram group: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkCheck out the Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/In this episode, I’m joined by Rich Savin, author of Mostly Straight, to explore a growing and often misunderstood group of men whose sexuality doesn’t fit neatly into gay straight or bisexual labels. We talk about what “mostly straight” actually means, how men who identify this way describe their attractions, and what distinguishes this identity from bisexuality or homosexuality. Rich shares insights into why there are now more mostly straight young men than gay and bisexual men combined, and what cultural and generational shifts may be driving this change.We also dive into how mostly straight men navigate attraction in real life, including whether desire is emotional aesthetic or sexual, and how masculinity shapes what feels possible or acceptable to express. We explore internal conflict and stigma, respond to critiques that the label avoids queerness, and look at differences across race class and geography. Finally, we zoom out to the future, discussing how male sexual fluidity may evolve over the next decade and what parents educators and queer communities can learn from this research. This episode bridges academic insight with real-world relevance for anyone curious about how male sexuality is changing.Follow and connect at @georgecanthost for more conversations about sex, shame, healing, and freedom. Order my book 'Ancient Manifestation Secrets' and get a FREE past-life regression workshop to retrieve manifestation skills: https://georgelizos.com/ancientmanifestationsecretsJoin the Energy Work Membership: https://georgelizos.com/energy-work-membershipDownload my FREE 'Dick Magnet Subliminal Affirmations' at https://georgelizos.com/dickmagnetDownload the FREE Ultimate Energy Protection Toolkit audio training at https://www.subscribepage.com/energyprotectiontoolkit Telegram group link: https://t.me/+AWgYq94TARQ2ODJkCan't Host Merch: https://www.bonfire.com/store/canthost/ABOUT RITCH SAVIN-WILLIAMSRitch C. Savin-Williams, Ph.D., is a prominent developmental psychologist and Professor Emeritus at Cornell University specializing in sexual minority youth, sexual fluidity, and LGBTQ+ studies. A licensed clinical psychologist, he has authored numerous books, including Bi: Bisexual, pansexual, fluid, and nonbinary youth (2021) and Mostly Straight: Sexual Fluidity among Men (2017). Website: https://psychology.cornell.edu/ritch-savin-williamsFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/ritch.savinwilliams/Book: Mostly Straight: https://a.co/d/01kadaasCONNECT WITH ME Instagram: https://instagram.com/georgelizos/Website: https://georgelizos.com/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iamgeorgelizosFacebook Group: http://www.yourspiritualtoolkit.com/ MY BOOKS Be The Guru: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TtCjLightworkers Gotta Work: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmKfProtect Your Light: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1TmJdSecrets of Greek Mysticism: https://l.linklyhq.com/l/1uPvrAncient Manifestation Secrets: https://2ly.link/1zCVg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
