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Beyond Broken Vows | Christian Marriage, Adultery, Pornography Addiction, Sexual Betrayal, InfidelityAuthor: Emily & Johnny Spigelmire Christian Marriage Recovery Coaches
***Top 1.5% Global Podcast***Dear Betrayed,Are you in shock? Confused, devastated, hurt, angry and feeling like you are not enough? Do you feel like it must be your fault, like you should have somehow seen the signs? Are you grieving the death of the marriage you thought you had?Dear Betrayer,Have you been believing the lie that if people knew what was really in your heart and mind, they would turn their back on you? Have you been convinced that your wife and family would leave you and you would lose everything if/when you came clean? Beloved, do you both feel like your marriage is over?Well, youre right. That marriage full of secrets and lies IS over. But now there is hope for an honest and transparent marriage - one full of trust, safety, connection, forgiveness, acceptance, and intimacy that youve never known before. Bold statement, right? You may be thinking, No way! Thats okay. We understandHi, we are Johnny and Emily Spigelmire and we have been where you are...As a result of adultery fueled by pornography, the marriage vows we had exchanged as starry-eyed newlyweds and had worked so hard to keep were eventually shattered. Weve been through hell and back. But we are here, together, to let you know that this devastation we experienced was actually a gift.Of course, we didnt see it that way at first and you probably dont either. But, through a commitment to recovery, our faith in God, and our hope for redemption, we set out on a journey of healing, and we cant wait to share what weve learned with you. We now have a marriage that continually blows our minds, and we give God all the glory!So, if youre ready to move from heartbreak and pain to hope and healing, grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and join us on a journey of faith as we talk through difficult questions like;Is there hope for our marriage?Can I fix all the damage Ive done?Can I ever trust again?Is true intimacy even possible?We will also do deep dives into the topics of:* Isolation* Guilt and Sham Language: en Genres: Christianity, Relationships, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture Contact email: Get it Feed URL: Get it iTunes ID: Get it Trailer: |
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180 | Infidelity Has Just Been Discovered: Is Your Marriage Over?
Monday, 19 October, 2026
Have you just found out that your spouse has been unfaithful to you? Or, have your own secret sexual choices just been discovered? Whichever side of this painful discovery you find yourself, your mind is racing with the same terrifying questions: Now what? Where do we go from here? Is our marriage over? The truth is hard to swallow: Yes, the marriage you had is dead. Facing life after infidelity means stepping onto a path you never asked for, never anticipated, and don’t know how to navigate. The fear is real, the confusion is overwhelming, and the security you built your life upon feels completely shattered. The old normal cannot be salvaged, and trying to patch up the rubble on your own will only lead to further heartbreak. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on an early discovery story from our own marriage. We reveal the devastating mistake we made—sweeping the truth under the rug without qualified help, leaving an unexploded fuse that detonated years later. You cannot navigate the fallout of sexual betrayal alone. Hit play to trade panic for direction and find your footing in the middle of the storm. We pray this blesses you! Johnny and Emily 💚TIP JAR - If this, or any of our episodes, brought you hope or encouragement, please leave us a little blessing to help us keep our content ad-free! 💜Work with us! coaching.beyondbrokenvows.com 💜Hang out with us and support our ministry on Patreon, beyondbrokenvows.com/partner 💜Become a Beyond Broken Vows Insider! Receive our weekly newsletter with behind-the-scenes stories, marriage tips, podcast previews and early access to giveaways and promotions! insider.beyondbrokenvows.com 💜Send us a voice message on SpeakPipe RESOURCES: Download our e-book, “9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal: For Couples Who Have Chosen to Stay Married” Covenant Eyes https://covenanteyes.sjv.io/xJ3JJO Use promo Code BBV to get 30 days free! (website purchase only) RELATED EPISODES: Episode 59. Is It Over? Take These 5 Steps to Save Your Marriage After Adultery Episode 89. Considering Divorce After Sexual Betrayal? 3 Good Reasons to Stay Married Episode 100. Getting Real Help for Your Marriage: 10 Obstacles to Counseling and Coaching Episode 103. 9 Steps to Healing After Sexual Betrayal for Him and Her NEXT STEPS: ✔️FOLLOW so you don’t miss a show! ✔️Leave a 5-star rating & written review on Apple Podcast. ✔️ Connect with us at support@beyondbrokenvows.com.
